Colin's first snow!!

One year ago today...

It's amazing what a year can bring forth.  Last year at this time I was totally exhausted from driving the 2 hour stretch to Charlottesville almost every day after teaching. My mom was in the hospital at UVA in the middle of serious health issues. (Brandon spent his January birthday with her in the hospital just like we had done for Christmas.)  And in the midst of all this, we were going through the process to have our dream of parenthood fulfilled. Admittedly, there were times that I would question the timing, but we knew beyond a shadow of a doubt that God had orchestrated everything to happen exactly at that time. And we are so glad He did.  A year has passed and we are so thankful for our little gift who is currently filling our house with his rather loud squeals. :)  

 

Our Story....

For those who may have missed it or just want another opportunity to view, here is the story as it aired on WSLS last week. Lindsey did an amazing job and we are so grateful to her and WSLS for allowing us to share our story!

Colin Anderson Williams 9/25/15

October 17th, 2013.  The day we found out that we were expecting Danielle.  I remember sitting in the recliner looking out at our beautiful maple in the backyard, its leaves aglow with gorgeous hues of deep crimson. The fall season has always been my favorite.  But that morning especially, the crisp air went straight to refreshing my soul. I had such a feeling of contentment. Fulfillment. Of something -- someone -- long awaited and prayed for. Fulfillment that would still leave a longing in my heart.

                                           

Two years later to the day.  This is my view. A view that literally causes tears to well up in my eyes.  Because now I actually have that fulfillment WITH me. In my arms. I have his beautiful eyes and smile to look at. And it absolutely captures and overwhelms me. I have gone to the passage above hundreds of times in the last year. I began praying it even before we were pregnant with Colin. Isaiah 64:3-4. "...when YOU did awesome things which we did not expect."  Enough said. This whole chapter in our lives was not expected. God completely unfolded it right before us.  "...WHO acts in behalf of the one who waits for HIM."  I marked this passage in November of last year. We had met the Andersons at this point and felt it was God's leading to move forward in this process. So I asked God to continue to work on our behalf. And He did in a marvelous way.

It's been 3 weeks of absolutely soaking in this precious bundle that God has loaned us. There are so many emotions that I have experienced in the last few weeks. I haven't written a lot yet about our precious one, because quite frankly...I still cannot comprehend it or put it accurately into words. (And of course there's that "no sleep" thing which makes it a bit hard to write coherently!)  I still have moments when I hear something about parenting a baby, and all of a sudden realize --"Hey! I'm included in that now."  My heart spent so long being guarded and wishing to be part of that mommy club, who could talk about sleepless nights and midnight feedings. I still miss our 3 in heaven (our first baby, Dani, and Colin's twin), and my heart still hurts for those friends who are still waiting and asking God to fulfill their heart's desire.  I want you to know that I still pray for you in the middle of the night. Our past journey has made holding this sweet Little Man that much more joyful. To the point of tears and the realization of...

Sacrifice. While we were waiting as Autumn endured a very LONG arduous labor, I had gone to the waiting room...completely overcome with tears at what was happening. We had sacrificed so much to get to this point. The Andersons had sacrificed so much. We've had to put a lot of trust in each other as couples. But I stood there thinking that this is one of the clearest pictures on earth that I have been given of what sacrifice is. Completely and totally God's love to me poured out through someone else. As  I looked at a gorgeous sunset out the window, I could not help but think of Jesus' love and death for me. I hope you get the gift of seeing such a clear picture of this in your life. 

We kept Little Man's name a secret till his birth...because I was pretty adamant that I wanted Autumn and Donovan to be the first to hear it. 

Colin. Meaning "People's Victory." He is a victorious chapter to our story. (And also the only name Brandon and I finally agreed on.) 

Anderson. Pretty self explanatory. After I cut the cord (an amazing experience), Autumn instantly asked his name. I got to tell her and Donovan that Colin would forever carry their name in honor of what they had done for us.  Yes, he is biologically ours. A precious, precious thing that every day we get to look at him and see the resemblance he holds to Dani Grace.  But he will also know this amazing family and their part in his life. 

Headed to the hospital!

 Up all night waiting for Little Man

 Siblings

The following photos courtesy of Mary Wall -- Because It's Joy Photography

 On Sister's blanket

We love you Colin Anderson Williams.

Mommy and Daddy

TBT (video version)

People love doing this "Throw-Back Thursday" thing every Thursday. As I was looking back at where we were a year ago around this time, I came across something that I had never posted publicly. Mostly because of me and my insecurities and that feeling of "I can't believe I did that in public..." that would come over me every time I watched it. But as I came across it again today, I realized that none of that matters. None of those reasons are good reasons to hide it. Because this Journey we're on isn't about ME. It's about what God did, and has done, and is continuing to do THROUGH us. I thought back to when I sang this last year....We hadn't even met Autumn and Donovan yet. We didn't know if we would ever have kids or not. Never in our wildest dreams did we imagine that only one year later we would be 23 weeks pregnant with our little boy. That a book would be published detailing our story and sharing the reason for the hope we have of seeing Dani Grace again. That a news crew would be following us around and letting us share what God has done with thousands of viewers. That we would have just filed paperwork for our non-profit organization, The Dani Grace Foundation, Inc. which is someday going to help other struggling couples start their own families. I mean...wow. A lot can change in one year!! But should I be surprised?? Should I really be this shocked?? After all.....isn't that simply What Faith Can Do???

So. Here it is. The one (and only) time you'll ever catch me singing outside of the shower. Please don't hold my very gifted and musically-inclined mother responsible....she tried. :)

(Posted with permission from Kutless...since it's their song and all).

It's a..........................

They say a picture is worth 1,000 words.......well here is a 5,000 word post!! :)

Autumn's reveal to us

His Easter outfit for next year

Our reveal to our families

We are sooooooo thankful for our "Little Man"!!! :)

It's Here!!!!! (Book Ordering Instructions)

When we look back one year ago, it is unbelievable to see where God has brought us. Everything that we are celebrating today and looking forward to in the future is because of the journey He has brought us on. We never would have imagined in a million years to be where we are today.

• Expecting a baby in October, carried by amazing couple whom we never would have met otherwise.
• The opportunity to be able to talk about our Dani Grace with thousands of viewers because a news station wants to cover our story.
• The messages and notes we've received from people all over the world who have heard and been encouraged by our story.
• And now, after a year of writing, correcting, proofing, working with the publisher, our book has finally arrived. MarySusan's dad (with the help of MarySusan) has finished and published the book. 

God has done, and is continuing to do, sooooo much with us! We are so excited that we will now be able to share Dani Grace's little life with people everywhere who will read about what God has done through us and our little girl over the past year. This book captures that story.

Ordering information: 

The cost of the book is $10. If you are non-local and need us to ship it to you, it will be an additional $4 (for up to 5 books) to help cover some of the shipping cost. We're not in this for the money. The purpose of this book is to help and encourage people who may be going through their own rough journeys and to glorify God by sharing how He has brought us through ours. So, if you can't afford the $10, or you just want to give this book to someone who is struggling and could really use the encouragement, please let us know and we will be happy to provide you with a copy anyway.

People with whom we have regular contact - MarySusan and I (as well as our parents) will be carrying books with us, so just ask us for one.

Local friends and family who we may not see on a regular basis:

• Email us at: danigracefoundation@gmail.com
• Give me your name, contact info and number of books you'd like.
• We will try to work out a plan to get books to you without you having to pay for shipping.

Non-Local friends and family:

• Click on the "Buy Now" button to the right at the top of blog (under the picture of the book, may not show in mobile version)
• That will take you to our Paypal account:
• Enter the number of books you wish to order on the left side and click "update". it should calculate shipping.
• On the right, either click "Pay with Paypal account (if you have one) or "Pay with debit or credit card" (or "bank account, but having worked in banking, I don't recommend that). 
• Enter your card information, name, adress, etc then click "pay now".
• PLEASE NOTE: Shipping is only a flat $4 for UP TO 5 BOOKS!!!
• That means if you are in a location where several of you will be ordering books, consolidate your order and you can order up to 5 books and only pay $4 shipping. Order 6-10 books and it's only $8 for shipping, etc...

After reading our book, please feel free to send us a message, email, or comment here any ways that it may have blessed you. We look forward to seeing how God will continue to use our little girl's story to bring glory to Him!